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08 February 2023

Behind the Scenes of a Mastermind Weekend with Amy Porterfield and Britt Seva

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The myth-busts, hot takes, explainers, and tools worth keeping.

Story· 4

Story05:02

How a Camera Became an Introvert's Passport Into the Room

At her first mastermind, Jasmine felt out of place and barely spoke, but photographing the event gave her a legitimate way to enter conversations. Sharing those photos later opened an ongoing connection with Amy Porterfield.

  • Jasmine felt she had entered an environment beyond her experience.
  • Photography supplied a natural reason to approach people.
  • The camera reduced the social friction of joining conversations.
  • Following up with something useful helped turn proximity into a relationship.

“the camera for me, because I'm such an introvert, it kind of acts as a buffer or a, a passport.”

Jasmine Star · 05:49

“And so I took photos and then shortly thereafter I emailed them to her and we started staying in contact via email, via social, and…”

Jasmine Star · 06:22
#introversion#networking#photography#relationships
Story06:34

Meeting Amy Porterfield Before Understanding Her Industry Status

Jasmine first encountered Amy as a compelling, funny speaker rather than as a digital-marketing authority. Their relationship began through personal admiration and follow-up, with Amy's wider industry influence becoming apparent only later.

  • Amy stood out through communication rather than status.
  • Jasmine approached the relationship without understanding Amy's reputation.
  • The friendship continued through email, social media, and shared masterminds.
  • Jasmine credits Amy as an early digital-marketing pioneer.

“I knew Amy as a woman who walked into the room and gave a really great presentation and was a phenomenal conversationalist.”

Jasmine Star · 06:41

“she's absolutely one of the pioneers in the digital marketing space”

Jasmine Star · 06:51
#amy porterfield#digital marketing#friendship#networking
Story07:15

Britt Seva's Quiet Rise to a Multimillion-Dollar Business

Jasmine met Britt after a mastermind presentation when Britt stayed behind and quietly absorbed the discussion. She attributes Britt's rapid business growth to exceptional work ethic and determination rather than a desire to dominate the room.

  • Britt was the final attendee to remain after the Q&A.
  • Her reserved style contrasted with her intense commitment to execution.
  • Her business grew from a few hundred thousand dollars to multiple millions.
  • Her company helps hairstylists operate as serious business owners.

“She is the kind of person that just puts her head down and works.”

Jasmine Star · 08:00

“I feel like I have not met a lot of people who rival like her work ethic and just her dogged determination.”

Jasmine Star · 08:04
#britt seva#work ethic#business growth#hair industry
Story14:36

Claiming the Mastermind She Had Rejected for Years

Jasmine had long treated hosting a mastermind as an unequivocal no. During a period of personal and professional change, she finally named the ambition, accepted rigorous feedback, and emerged ready to pursue it despite feeling both nervous and excited.

  • A previously rejected business model became aligned with a new season.
  • Saying the idea aloud felt vulnerable.
  • Supportive challenge helped sharpen the offer.
  • Readiness can coexist with anxiety and excitement.

“it was such this powerful shift in claiming the thing that I had always resisted.”

Jasmine Star · 14:58

“I'm nervous and excited, so I'm nerve sighted.”

Jasmine Star · 16:07
#mastermind#identity shift#courage#business model

Tool· 1

Tool11:12

Turn Expert Content Into Applied Peer Learning

Even while relaxing, the group watched business videos from Alex and Leila Hormozi. The value came not merely from consuming the content but from discussing how its lessons applied differently to each person's company.

  • Choose material from people with relevant demonstrated experience.
  • Digest the ideas collaboratively rather than passively.
  • Translate general lessons into company-specific actions.
  • Peers can help reveal where an idea fits or fails in your context.

“what we were doing was learning from people who are doing and have done what we ultimately wanna do.”

Jasmine Star · 11:31

“we're learning, we're digesting and then we're helping each other apply it to each other's businesses.”

Jasmine Star · 11:39
#learning#business content#application#hormozi

Takeaway· 3

Takeaway01:36

Why Leaving Her Laptop Became an Emotional Wake-Up Call

Jasmine initially viewed arriving at the airport without her laptop as a serious problem because she uses spare moments to work. She then interpreted the mistake as an invitation to stop using productivity as a way to avoid uncomfortable emotions and decisions.

  • Jasmine describes her laptop as a constant extension of herself.
  • She routinely converts small pockets of waiting time into work.
  • Therapy helped her recognize busyness as a safety mechanism.
  • Leaving the laptop created room to experience discomfort rather than escape it.

“My laptop is my third arm.”

Jasmine Star · 01:49

“I will use work to just stay busy so that I don't actually have to feel”

Jasmine Star · 03:08
#workaholism#emotions#self-awareness#productivity
Takeaway04:07

The Kind of Friendship That Can Survive Direct Disagreement

Jasmine says her relationships with Amy and Britt permit unusually candid disagreement. The honesty works because every participant trusts that the underlying intention is to help rather than win or wound.

  • Strong peer relationships do not require constant agreement.
  • Delivery and readiness can affect how feedback is received.
  • Trust allows friends to discuss the unpolished reality of business.
  • A shared commitment to helping each other keeps conflict constructive.

“no, I patently disagree with you and these are the reasons why.”

Jasmine Star · 04:29

“we're just always hellbent on helping each other.”

Jasmine Star · 04:29
#friendship#feedback#trust#conflict
Takeaway08:35

You Don't Need a Formal Mastermind to Create Synergy

Jasmine argues that valuable entrepreneurial connection can begin with a small, informal gathering. Formal masterminds contributed friendships and financial gains to her career, but proximity to the right people is the essential starting point.

  • Useful peers do not need to live nearby.
  • Intentional time together can create valuable business synergy.
  • Formal programs can help but are not required.
  • A small gathering lowers the barrier to beginning.

“It doesn't have to be a formalized mastermind, although I've learned and gained friendships and money on the back of a formalized mastermind.”

Jasmine Star · 08:53

“But starting small is amazing.”

Jasmine Star · 08:53
#masterminds#community#synergy#entrepreneurship