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02 April 2020

Creating a "Champagne Moment" to Make Your Dreams Reality

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The myth-busts, hot takes, explainers, and tools worth keeping.

Myth Buster· 1

Myth Buster11:27

Confidence Does Not Arrive Before You Begin

Jasmine rejects the belief that people should wait for confidence before speaking, publishing, or practicing a craft. Confidence develops through repeated action, including awkward early attempts made before anyone is paying attention.

  • Action generates confidence rather than following it
  • Every expert has an unseen beginner period
  • Small audiences still provide a place to practice
  • Modern creators can begin with a phone rather than a formal stage
  • The direct route to learning a craft is doing the craft

“they will do it when confidence comes, but confidence only comes when you do it.”

Jasmine Star · 11:27

“You have to say, you want to speak, speak, and you want to learn how to cook, cook.”

Jasmine Star · 12:25
#confidence#action#practice#creativity

Hot Take· 2

Hot Take32:26

Success Belongs to People Who Keep Rising, Not Just Standouts

Jasmine challenges the assumption that wealth, intelligence, or natural distinction determines success. Her view is that persistent preparation creates the conditions for opportunity, especially through unglamorous work performed before recognition arrives.

  • Success is not reserved for the richest or smartest
  • Undaunted people continue despite ridicule and uncertainty
  • Standouts are often produced through work rather than born exceptional
  • Preparation allows people to use opportunities when they appear
  • Unseen practice precedes visible success

“Success goes to those who simply remain undaunted.”

Jasmine Star · 32:56

“Success goes to those who work. Their way to being a standout luck is when preparation meets opportunity.”

Jasmine Star · 33:25
#persistence#success#preparation#work ethic
Hot Take34:52

People Will Judge You Whether You Chase the Dream or Not

Fear of other people's opinions cannot be eliminated by remaining inactive because people form opinions in either case. Jasmine frames public action as a choice to prioritize purpose and service over approval from people who do not share or support the mission.

  • Posting and staying silent can both attract judgment
  • Avoidance does not provide immunity from other people's opinions
  • External approval does not pay the business's bills
  • A creator can serve the smaller group aligned with the message
  • Purpose should determine action more than universal likability

“People will have an opinion about you either way, if you are going to let somebody else's opinion of you stop you from doing the…”

Jasmine Star · 35:06

“People's opinions of me don't pay my bills.”

Jasmine Star · 35:26
#judgment#courage#authenticity#public work

Story· 4

Story02:16

How a Family Crisis Redirected Jasmine Star From Law to Photography

Jasmine's mother was diagnosed with brain cancer while Jasmine was preparing to return to UCLA and pursue law school. The crisis forced her to reconsider what mattered, and she ultimately chose photography, beginning a path that grew from making memories into teaching business and storytelling.

  • Her mother's diagnosis triggered a quarter-life reassessment
  • She declined the expected law-school path despite being admitted
  • Photography began as a way to participate in meaningful memories
  • Her mother survived a severe battle with cancer
  • Her photography career later expanded into business education

“And she started asking herself like, what really matters to me?”

Cathy Heller · 03:03

“she didn't go to law school, even though she got in, she decided to pick up her camera and start taking pictures”

Cathy Heller · 03:07
#career change#photography#family#purpose
Story13:38

The Cheesecake Factory Mastermind That Came Before Paid Mentorship

Before Jasmine could afford courses or masterminds, she met with three other people who were building businesses in similar circumstances. Their inexpensive gatherings created questions, mutual referrals, shared momentum, and an early form of accountability without requiring a premium program.

  • Useful peer support does not require an expensive mastermind
  • Four early entrepreneurs met every other month
  • They discussed problems and asked one another questions
  • Members referred work across the group
  • Collective progress eventually enabled further investment in education

“I literally had negative money when I started, but I paired up with three other people who were trying to build businesses at the same…”

Jasmine Star · 13:51

“We would get together, we would ask each other questions and we started referring work back to each other.”

Jasmine Star · 14:12
#mastermind#mentorship#networking#accountability
Story14:25

Why Jasmine Risked $25,000 on a Mastermind She Barely Understood

Jasmine discovered James Wedmore through an unfamiliar webinar and initially dismissed his $25,000 mastermind offer. She decided to invest after asking whether the experience could help her create an additional revenue stream worth at least that amount, despite feeling overwhelmed once she arrived.

  • The mastermind cost $25,000
  • Jasmine evaluated whether a new revenue stream could repay the investment
  • She entered without prior digital-launch experience
  • She initially feared she had wasted the money
  • She reports that the business generated an additional $350,000 that year

“if I went through this program, could I find a revenue stream by doing something different that yielded$25,000 could I do that?”

Jasmine Star · 15:56

“the investment paid off because we ended up that year bringing in an extra$350,000”

Jasmine Star · 16:29
#investment#mastermind#risk#business growth
Story36:07

Jasmine Delayed Her Podcast by Demanding a Strategic Justification

Jasmine wanted to create a podcast for two years but repeatedly demanded a strategic end goal before allowing herself to begin. A prompt to treat it as a creative project freed her to start with conversations, experiment with formats, and accept the unresolved middle of developing the show.

  • Strategic overthinking delayed the podcast for two years
  • She felt every use of business time needed justification
  • Permission to create without barriers unlocked the project
  • The show mixes solo episodes, coaching, and guest conversations
  • The format remained intentionally open to future change

“this was actually the piece of resistance.”

Jasmine Star · 36:08

“And it wasn't until somebody said, can you just not let yourself let this be a project? Like could you just be creative?”

Jasmine Star · 36:29
#podcasting#creativity#resistance#experimentation

Takeaway· 1

Takeaway28:28

A Defined Purpose Makes Public Criticism Harder to Weaponize

Jasmine argues that people become less vulnerable to negative opinions when they know why their work matters. A clearly stated purpose provides a stable reason to continue serving, even when comments, doubts, and ridicule accompany public action.

  • Unclear purpose leaves people vulnerable to external negativity
  • Purpose provides a foundation for persistent action
  • Serving one person can reveal meaning beyond revenue
  • A large goal needs a deeper reason to sustain it
  • Criticism need not determine whether the work continues

“When you know why you are doing something, nobody's opinion thoughts, doubt, snarky comments, tear down remarks will shake you from that.”

Jasmine Star · 29:01

“So people say negative things. It should not shake you from your stinking purpose.”

Jasmine Star · 30:03
#purpose#criticism#resilience#entrepreneurship