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Rachel Hollis14 January 2020

How to Change From a Dreamer to a DOER

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The myth-busts, hot takes, explainers, and tools worth keeping.

Hot Take· 1

Hot Take08:27

Remaining Ignorant Is an Active Choice When Information Is Everywhere

Rachel and Jasmine discuss how free online information allowed them to learn skills without formal instruction. The point is not that research guarantees mastery, but that abundant access removes many excuses for never beginning.

  • Free information has dramatically lowered the barrier to learning.
  • Search can solve basic technical obstacles immediately.
  • Self-directed study still requires action and practice.
  • Not knowing something today does not require remaining uninformed.

“in an age of this much information to remain ignorant about something is an active choice.”

Rachel Hollis · 08:37

“There's so much information that exists out there for free.”

Rachel Hollis · 08:47
#learning#google#self-education

Explainer· 1

Explainer25:09

The Eight-Lane Highway Model of Declining Facebook Reach

Jasmine compares social-platform distribution to an increasingly congested highway. As more users, businesses, and advertisements enter, the lanes available to business-page content shrink, reducing organic reach without making the remaining free exposure worthless.

  • Early Facebook pages benefited from unusually generous distribution.
  • Growing platform participation increased competition for attention.
  • Facebook reduced business-page reach to protect the user experience.
  • Lower percentage reach can still represent valuable free exposure.

“let's just call that an eight lane highway”

Jasmine Star · 25:33

“I won't take four free 3% of my audience seeing my stuff for free.”

Jasmine Star · 26:46
#facebook#organic-reach#algorithms#social-media

Story· 4

Story01:47

Why Jasmine Star Walked Away From a Full-Ride Law Scholarship

Jasmine describes how her mother's brain-cancer relapse forced her to confront the brevity of life and reconsider a safe legal career. Her mother's unexpected recovery and presence at Jasmine's wedding intensified the realization that returning to law school would mean reclaiming a path that no longer felt right.

  • Her mother's relapse triggered a major reassessment of priorities.
  • Leaving law school risked disappointing her immigrant family and community.
  • A full-ride scholarship made the safe path especially difficult to abandon.
  • The crisis helped Jasmine identify photography as the work she wanted to pursue.

“And I realized the enormity and beautifulness of life, and I realized how short it was.”

Jasmine Star · 02:19

“And I thought to myself, I am on the wrong path.”

Jasmine Star · 02:24
#career-change#family#purpose#photography
Story05:49

The Christmas Camera That Turned a Dream Into a Real Experiment

After Jasmine admitted that she wanted to become a photographer despite never owning a camera, her husband gave her one for Christmas and proposed a one-year trial. She waited until January 1 to open the box, symbolically separating the new pursuit from an exceptionally painful year.

  • Jasmine had never owned or used a camera when she named photography as her dream.
  • Her husband supported the idea instead of dismissing it as unrealistic.
  • The existing three-year return window for law school limited the downside.
  • The camera transformed a private aspiration into something she could act upon.

“And he asked me if you could do one thing for the rest of your life and be happy, what would it be?”

Jasmine Star · 07:00

“And he said take a year, just one year, one year and if it doesn't work you can go back to law school.”

Jasmine Star · 07:58
#photography#support#career-change#risk
Story12:29

Why Jasmine Flew to Atlanta Just to Carry a Photographer's Bags

Jasmine explains that she entered creative-business communities and volunteered for unglamorous work because direct access created a steep learning curve. Her father even used airline miles to send her to Atlanta for an unpaid opportunity carrying a photographer's equipment.

  • Practical access can teach lessons unavailable through observation alone.
  • Communities exposed Jasmine to opportunities outside her existing network.
  • She volunteered for tasks others treated as jokes or inconveniences.
  • Her family supported opportunities even when financial resources were scarce.

“I would absolutely fly myself somewhere to work for free just to see how things are done.”

Jasmine Star · 12:43

“I think that is the sharpest learning curve.”

Jasmine Star · 12:50
#apprenticeship#networking#photography#learning
Story31:00

How Jasmine Pivoted Without Diluting Her Photography Brand

Jasmine traces the gradual transition from wedding photographer to educator, consultant, and social-media strategist. She initially consulted quietly because photography remained the brand's established revenue engine, then made a public positioning shift after gaining evidence that her business knowledge transferred beyond photographers.

  • Jasmine focused on photography for six or seven years before expanding.
  • Teaching photographers created demand from other small-business owners.
  • Free educational content led to speaking and consulting opportunities.
  • She delayed a public pivot to protect the positioning of the photography business.
  • The formal shift toward entrepreneur education came in 2016.

“I really wanted to still strongly position myself where our golden egg was and our golden egg was photography”

Jasmine Star · 32:04

“And then in 2016, meeting strong pivot in the public space to say that I'm teaching and empowering entrepreneurs to build a brand and market…”

Jasmine Star · 32:27
#business-pivot#consulting#photography#entrepreneurship

Tool· 1

Tool37:42

How Content Batching and Planoly Reduce Daily Posting Pressure

Rachel describes producing many brand photographs in a single shoot and using Planoly to organize them for later publication. She notes that the image and caption need not share a literal subject because the photograph establishes visual quality while the copy carries the deeper message.

  • Batch photography creates a reusable inventory of visual assets.
  • Planoly helps the team organize and schedule content.
  • A brand image can establish tone without literally depicting the caption topic.
  • Followers may engage primarily with the writing attached to an attractive image.

“we do photo shoots where we take like a crap ton of photos at one time”

Rachel Hollis · 37:42

“what people are coming to my feed for is the copy that's attached to the photo.”

Rachel Hollis · 38:05
#planoly#content-batching#instagram#workflow

Takeaway· 1

Takeaway16:54

You Are Not Required to Believe Every Thought You Have

The conversation separates the mind from the thoughts it produces and argues that recurring negative thoughts should not automatically be treated as truth. Jasmine describes consciously deciding whether to accept stories of failure and inadequacy or replace them with interpretations that support resilience.

  • Repeated thoughts can feel true through familiarity alone.
  • A thought can be examined instead of automatically accepted.
  • Alternative interpretations can change emotional and business behavior.
  • Conscious reframing contributed to Jasmine feeling happier.

“we are not our thoughts”

Jasmine Star · 19:13

“Do I want to believe this thought that I am a failure?”

Jasmine Star · 19:23
#mindset#thoughts#resilience#self-belief