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Lindsey Schwartz17 October 2023

How to Create a Community That Sells For You with Lindsey Schwartz

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The myth-busts, hot takes, explainers, and tools worth keeping.

Myth Buster· 1

Myth Buster04:06

Why a Small Audience Is Not a Business Handicap

Lindsey argues that entrepreneurs often overvalue reach while neglecting relationships among the people already paying attention. Her business repeatedly produced results disproportionate to its email list and social following because she treated a smaller audience as a different operating condition, not a fatal limitation.

  • Audience size does not determine relationship quality.
  • More attention cannot compensate for weak nurturing.
  • A small audience can outperform its size when members are deeply connected.

“But I never once saw the size of my audience as a problem.”

Lindsey Schwartz · 04:06

“I just need more audience. I need more eyeballs when they're not actually nurturing and creating connections in the audience that they have.”

Lindsey Schwartz · 04:06
#audience#growth#relationships#small-business

Explainer· 2

Explainer24:39

Use Collaboration to Trade for the Resource You Lack

Rather than treating collaboration as a generic promotional tactic, Lindsey suggests identifying the exact missing resource: space, an audience, content skill, or production capability. Partners can combine complementary strengths to create an experience that elevates every participating brand.

  • Identify the specific resource missing from the project.
  • Seek a partner that benefits from what you can contribute.
  • Possible resources include space, distribution, creative skill, and hospitality.
  • Combining audiences creates cross-pollination and energy.

“who has the resource that I'm missing in this situation?”

Lindsey Schwartz · 25:37

“What do you bring to the table, even if it's a charcuterie board, literally?”

Lindsey Schwartz · 26:38
#collaboration#partnerships#resources#events
Explainer42:20

Why Bold Self-Expression Became Part of the Powerhouse Women Culture

Powerhouse Women's fashion was not imposed as a formal dress code; it emerged from Lindsey's public experimentation with identity and style. The resulting norm invited members to embody their aspirational selves while the event also made room for vulnerability and difficult inner work.

  • The leader's visible evolution can seed community norms.
  • Style became an invitation to express a higher or fuller self.
  • Self-expression could mean sequins, sweats, or a ball gown.
  • Aspiration and vulnerability together produced deeper connection.

“We have a hashtag style, your higher self.”

Lindsey Schwartz · 43:11

“people know that this is a space, their fullest expression, the boldest version of them is welcomed.”

Lindsey Schwartz · 43:34
#self-expression#events#identity#belonging

Story· 1

Story11:13

How a Book Launch Became a Global Community

Lindsey initially imagined launching her book in a friend's living room, but the first event drew 100 people, half of whom she did not know. Their response showed that the underlying conversation had demand and that her role could be to create the space rather than remain its sole focus.

  • The first event began as a modest book launch idea.
  • One hundred attendees demonstrated demand beyond Lindsey's existing relationships.
  • The community expanded when the mission became larger than its founder.
  • Starting the conversation gave others permission to participate.

“And I remember there were 100 people who showed up that first event, which that's big.”

Lindsey Schwartz · 11:13

“We're just the brave ones to go first, to start the conversation that starts a bigger movement and then it becomes about something so much…”

Lindsey Schwartz · 11:31
#origin-story#events#movement#entrepreneurship

Tool· 1

Tool20:36

Turn a Tiny In-Person Gathering into Brand-Building Content

Lindsey recommends prioritizing small in-person connection even for brands with limited budgets. A founder can partner with a venue or complementary business, create a modest gathering, and capture the experience so people online can understand the brand's culture without attending.

  • In-person connection can begin with a small customer demographic.
  • Venue partnerships can reduce costs while benefiting both businesses.
  • The gathering should embody the brand's unifying identity.
  • Photo and video extend the experience to the wider online audience.

“I still believe in in-person connection wholeheartedly”

Lindsey Schwartz · 20:36

“Capture all of it as content, every single element of it.”

Lindsey Schwartz · 21:58
#events#content#brand#collaboration

Takeaway· 3

Takeaway07:37

Replace “Who Am I?” with “Why Not Me?”

Writing her book forced Lindsey beyond work she knew she could control and exposed her fear of being judged. She progressed by replacing a disqualifying question with one that opened the possibility of growth through finishing something difficult.

  • Fear can indicate movement beyond a controlled comfort zone.
  • Qualifications are not the only basis for starting a needed conversation.
  • Completing difficult work can create opportunities that certainty cannot reveal.
  • Imperfection can later become part of a compelling story.

“I just had to wake up every day and choose to ask a better question. Why not me? Like, why not me?”

Lindsey Schwartz · 10:18

“what we think is our worst fear now becomes the best story that I get to tell on stage.”

Lindsey Schwartz · 10:18
#imposter-syndrome#courage#perfectionism#mindset
Takeaway15:06

Delayed Transitions Can Turn Necessary Change into an Explosion

Lindsey sensed for about a year that she needed to leave her former business identity but delayed acting because she feared disappointing people. The eventual transition became more painful, while also exposing people-pleasing patterns she needed to avoid recreating in her new company.

  • Internal prompts often intensify when repeatedly ignored.
  • Trying to avoid disappointment can cause greater harm later.
  • Transitions reveal patterns that may otherwise transfer into the next venture.
  • Leaders can unintentionally create dependency to feel important.

“And when we ignore the prompt to take the action, a bigger prompt comes and then a bigger one.”

Lindsey Schwartz · 15:06

“I don't think it had to get to that point.”

Lindsey Schwartz · 15:32
#career-change#people-pleasing#leadership#transition
Takeaway16:48

Give a New Business Room to Emerge Before Forcing Revenue

Lindsey maintained income during her transition and deliberately avoided forcing her emerging community into an immediate monetization model. Jasmine adds that savings can create a similar runway, emphasizing that the transferable lesson is to make a financial plan rather than copy another founder's circumstances.

  • Financial runway reduces pressure to force an immature offer.
  • Runway may come from continuing income, household income, or savings.
  • A transition plan can coexist with uncertainty about the final business model.
  • Financial constraints should shape the timeline honestly.

“I never allowed myself to put the financial pressure on needing to monetize something because it would have made me force something that probably could…”

Lindsey Schwartz · 18:04

“having a plan in place I think is the thing that changed it.”

Jasmine Star · 19:18
#runway#monetization#business-transition#finance