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05 September 2024

How to Get Ahead of 99% of Business Owners

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The myth-busts, hot takes, explainers, and tools worth keeping.

Myth Buster· 1

Myth Buster09:16

Why “Always Be Closing” Is the Wrong ABC for Jasmine

Jasmine contrasts aggressive closing scripts with alternatives such as always be creating, consistent, or converting. Her distinction is that conversion preserves the buyer's ability to decide, while brute-force closing can become an attempt to outtalk every objection.

  • Creating can mean producing value, time, and wins for others
  • Consistency focuses attention on showing up and controlling what you can
  • Conversion allows the customer to make a decision
  • Closing tactics can work while still feeling coercive or personally misaligned

“I decided ABC always be creating. Creating value. Creating time. Creating wins for other people.”

Jasmine Star · 10:13

“When somebody converts, they're making up their own mind.”

Jasmine Star · 11:12
#sales#conversion#consistency#value-creation

Hot Take· 1

Hot Take08:13

Stop Trying to Decimate Your Competition

A preceding speaker tells attendees to wake up thinking about defeating competitors. Jasmine rejects that externally focused posture and argues that customer experience, success, and transformation are more controllable and more aligned with how she wants to build.

  • Competitor obsession spends attention on people and conditions outside your control
  • Customer experience and the customer journey are controllable
  • Transformation offers an alternative basis for competitive advantage
  • A commercially effective tactic can still be wrong for a particular founder

“I can control the experience that a customer has. I can control what the customer journey looks like and I can focus on the transformation.”

Jasmine Star · 09:16

“It works. It works. I just don't think it works for me.”

Jasmine Star · 11:12
#competition#customer-success#transformation#business-values

Explainer· 2

Explainer38:16

The Two Levers for Scaling From Seven to Eight Figures

Jasmine argues that founders can muscle a business to roughly $1.2 million with limited support, but higher-scale growth demands mature systems and a stronger organizational layer. Repeatable processes enable reliable delegation, while division directors or executives prevent every manager from reporting directly to the founder.

  • Founder effort and a small number of assistants can carry a business only so far
  • Documented systems should let new team members reproduce strong results
  • Scaling requires attracting capable talent
  • An intermediate leadership layer helps the founder work on rather than inside the business

“scaling comes in two ways and both need to be in existence.”

Jasmine Star · 38:16

“Scale to eight figures by way of systems and by weight of people.”

Jasmine Star · 39:10
#scaling#systems#leadership#org-design
Explainer40:01

How Imposter Syndrome Changes at Six, Seven, and Eight Figures

Jasmine describes different forms of imposter syndrome across business stages. Six-figure founders may question whether they can succeed at all, seven-figure founders may doubt their ability to repeat success or become scalable leaders, and eight-figure founders may dismiss their achievements as ordinary or insufficiently special.

  • Six-figure doubt centers on legitimacy and the ability to make the business work
  • Seven-figure doubt centers on repeatability, leadership, and reducing founder dependence
  • Eight-figure doubt can minimize exceptional achievements as normal
  • Success does not permanently remove self-doubt

“And imposter syndrome affects eight figure business owners too.”

Jasmine Star · 40:01

“If you're building a Business imposter syndrome will come up.”

Jasmine Star · 42:14
#imposter-syndrome#founders#leadership#business-growth

Story· 5

Story02:06

Inside a High-Pressure Digital Marketing Sales Event

Jasmine recounts accepting an unpaid speaking slot while crossing from the photography industry into broader digital marketing. She arrives to find escalating pitches, clipboard-wielding sales teams, theatrical speaker entrances, and an environment that feels inconsistent with her brand.

  • The event used escalating offers and immediate credit-card collection
  • Jasmine was entering a new industry where she had little name recognition
  • She declined to imitate an entrance that felt inauthentic
  • The experience exposed a sales culture that worked commercially but conflicted with her values

“What did I just agree to speak at?”

Jasmine Star · 04:46

“nobody's going to protect your brand. You better walk in integrity to what you can control.”

Jasmine Star · 06:34
#events#sales-pressure#brand-integrity#digital-marketing
Story23:16

What a Silent Tea Ceremony and Dance Session Taught Jasmine

At a wellness event outside her comfort zone, Jasmine experiences a two-hour silent tea ceremony, sound baths, and uninhibited movement. The dancing initially feels embarrassing, but full participation becomes fun once she stops caring how she appears.

  • Two hours of silence made being alone with her thoughts unusually powerful
  • The event exposed her to formats far outside her normal business environment
  • Half-hearted participation preserved the discomfort without delivering the experience
  • Letting go of self-consciousness allowed enjoyment and experimentation

“Being alone with my thoughts for two hours was crazy and powerful and life changing.”

Jasmine Star · 23:16

“The minute I stopped caring I just started having fun.”

Jasmine Star · 24:50
#wellness#comfort-zone#self-consciousness#experimentation
Story27:59

The Etsy Seller Charging More Than 10x for Custom Game Boards

Jasmine meets an unassuming maker who sells custom checkers and chess boards. His ability to listen for what customers wanted—and what they would pay a premium for—supported listings whose premium tier cost more than ten times the standard version.

  • The useful lesson came from an unexpected person at a networking mixer
  • Customer listening informed both product design and listing creation
  • Standard and premium listings served different levels of demand
  • Customization supported a dramatic pricing spread

“he knew how to listen to what customers want, and then he knew how to listen that of what they would pay a premium for.”

Jasmine Star · 27:59

“the difference between a standard listing and a premium listing was more than a ten x difference.”

Jasmine Star · 29:04
#etsy#premium-pricing#customer-research#custom-products
Story29:51

The $8M Founder Who Chose Live Webinars Over Automation

A quiet mastermind member appears unconventional—eating lettuce like an apple and knitting during presentations—but runs an $8 million lifestyle business. She leaves every morning to conduct a genuinely live webinar and refuses software that would make recordings look live because deception conflicts with her values.

  • Outward behavior gave little indication of the scale of her company
  • Daily live webinars created a powerful consistency engine
  • She refused simulated-live tactics on ethical grounds
  • Her business was optimized for family, travel, few employees, and personal autonomy

“she was doing the powerful yet simple yet hard thing of consistency”

Jasmine Star · 32:27

“I am not a liar”

Jasmine Star · 32:27
#webinars#consistency#lifestyle-business#integrity
Story34:35

Why a Founder With a $50M Exit Started Selling Bird Calls

At a short mastermind event, Jasmine meets a quiet older entrepreneur focused exclusively on learning YouTube. He had already bootstrapped and sold an e-commerce business for $50 million, then started a hand-carved bird-call business because he loved building and wanted a new challenge.

  • He entered the event with one narrowly defined learning objective
  • He remained quiet whenever the discussion did not concern YouTube or video
  • His new company's size was irrelevant to his financial needs
  • The venture gave him the challenge of building differently from before

“He came in with a singular focus. I'm here to learn one thing”

Jasmine Star · 35:26

“he had sold an e-commerce business for $50 million, and so he didn't need to start another business.”

Jasmine Star · 35:26
#entrepreneurship#youtube#ecommerce#motivation