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20 April 2020

My Audio Diary: How Covid-19 is Affecting My Life and Business

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Explainer· 1

Explainer54:14

What Goes Inside a Launch Map

Jasmine defines the launch map used by her team to coordinate an upcoming Social Curator campaign. It combines the campaign timeline with decisions about videos, emails, bonuses, and other launch assets, giving the team a shared operational view before production begins.

  • The launch map combines a timeline with an execution framework
  • It specifies campaign videos and emails
  • It records bonuses and additional launch components
  • The map supports alignment between Jasmine and the launch manager

“Now a launch map is a timeline and a framework for what we're going to do to actually launch”

Jasmine Star · 54:29

“we'll talk about what videos will produce, what emails we'll send, what bonuses to give in a lot more.”

Jasmine Star · 54:40
#launch#campaign-planning#marketing#operations

Story· 5

Story05:16

Cooking as a Small Act of Resistance During Quarantine

JD describes cooking fresh meals as a way to preserve agency and normality during the pandemic. The daily burden eventually drains some of the joy from an activity he loves, illustrating how even meaningful routines can become exhausting under confinement.

  • Cooking breakfast, lunch, and dinner turns pleasure into obligation
  • Fresh herbs and thoughtful meals symbolize resistance to crisis conditions
  • A difficult day does not invalidate the routine's larger emotional value

“cooking breakfast, lunch and dinner for two weeks straight kind of takes the joy out of how much I love to cook.”

JD · 05:58

“this is my way of showing coven that it doesn't own me because during this crisis we're eating fresh herbs.”

JD · 06:54
#quarantine#cooking#resilience#daily-life
Story11:22

Serving Customers Without Ignoring Team Burnout

Jasmine prepares an unexpected live coaching session and announces crisis-specific caption templates for Social Curator members. At the same time, she resists pulling an exhausted team into more Friday work, exposing the tension between responsive customer service and protecting employee capacity.

  • Customers received ten COVID-specific caption templates
  • The bonus was designed to make members feel supported and understood
  • Jasmine noticed the team was already burned out
  • Customer urgency and team sustainability required simultaneous consideration

“JD and I both believe it's important to continue showing up for members of social curator no matter what.”

Jasmine Star · 11:22

“everybody's just completely burnt out.”

Jasmine Star · 13:59
#customer-support#team-burnout#covid-19#leadership
Story15:12

A First Birthday Apart From Her Twin and Family

Jasmine celebrates her birthday at home with a homemade cake, a chaotic virtual team song, and a Zoom call with family. The celebration carries grief because it is the first birthday she and her twin have spent apart, while vulnerable relatives make an in-person surprise too risky.

  • The virtual Social Curator team performs an intentionally chaotic birthday song
  • Jasmine and her twin spend their birthday apart for the first time
  • The family avoids gathering to protect relatives with asthma
  • Shared memories help preserve connection across distance

“Probably the first time in our entire life that we haven't spent it together.”

Jasmine Star · 20:16

“I don't want to contaminate my mom and dad and I don't want to contaminate my husband and he's asthmatic”

Bianca · 33:30
#family#birthday#quarantine#connection
Story21:25

Shared Building Risks Force a Sudden Housing Rethink

After the apartment complex refuses to confirm whether residents have COVID-19, management tells Jasmine to assume neighbors are infected. Shared doors, an elevator, a mail-room touchscreen, and package keys make the risks feel unavoidable, prompting the family to reconsider moving into an unfinished fixer-upper.

  • Management cites privacy concerns when declining to confirm cases
  • The building concentrates residents around multiple shared touchpoints
  • Jasmine asks for confirmation rather than anyone's identity
  • The family's unfinished house begins to feel safer than the approved apartment

“I don't need to know who the person is.”

Jasmine Star · 22:02

“just assume that your neighbors have Corona.”

Apartment management, quoted by Jasmine Star · 23:18
#housing#covid-19#risk#family
Story27:42

Compressing a Yearlong Renovation Into a Livable One-Month Plan

The couple considers abandoning a full renovation and doing only what is necessary to make the old house temporarily livable and approvable. Their discussion reveals practical trade-offs among safety, adoption requirements, launch timing, construction work, and the disruption of moving with a baby.

  • The original plan involved gutting the house and replacing the roof
  • The temporary scope is reduced to floors and painted walls
  • A social worker must approve the home before the adoption is finalized
  • The move is likely to overlap with a major Social Curator launch

“we thought it was going to be a year project and now we're looking at a month.”

JD · 29:52

“let's take it one day at a time.”

JD · 31:22
#renovation#adoption#prioritization#moving

Takeaway· 4

Takeaway02:30

Why This Quarantine Diary Has No Clean Ending

Jasmine explains that the episode captures events almost in real time, before their outcomes or lessons are known. Rather than impose an artificial resolution, she gives listeners an unfinished view of a business and family navigating an unprecedented week.

  • The episode was recorded as iPhone clips across one quarantine week
  • Jasmine worried the personal and unresolved material might not help listeners
  • The diary intentionally avoids claiming lessons that have not yet emerged

“Well, this podcast doesn't follow that arc whatsoever.”

Jasmine Star · 02:30

“I am creating this podcast almost in real time”

Jasmine Star · 03:17
#quarantine#podcasting#vulnerability#uncertainty
Takeaway25:07

The Embarrassment of Publicly Reversing a Decision

Jasmine feels embarrassed that she mocked the condition of the fixer-upper and may now move into it. JD reframes the reversal as a rational response to circumstances nobody could predict, separating an adaptive change from personal failure.

  • Jasmine had publicly joked that the house was unlivable
  • Pandemic risk changes the relative safety of the apartment and house
  • Her embarrassment concerns both the decision and anticipated judgment
  • JD emphasizes that the pandemic was unforeseeable

“I feel like it was a very blatant mistake”

Jasmine Star · 25:44

“well nobody could predict, could have predicted what was gonna happen.”

JD · 27:11
#embarrassment#adaptability#decision-making#vulnerability
Takeaway51:57

You Are Not Valuable Only When You Are Doing Everything

Stress about simultaneously launching, moving, parenting, and being a supportive spouse gives Jasmine severe physical discomfort. JD asks her to narrow her operational focus and challenges the belief that fulfilling an identity requires constant task performance.

  • Jasmine feels responsible for the launch, move, motherhood, and supporting JD
  • Stress is producing significant stomach pain
  • JD assigns the move outside Jasmine's immediate arena
  • Being a wife or mother is framed as an identity, not a checklist

“you act like, like you're not something if you're not doing stuff.”

JD · 53:40

“It's not one of those categories where you can be like, I'm gonna check that off.”

JD · 54:05
#stress#identity#boundaries#family
Takeaway59:33

When You Cannot Find the Light, Become It

Jasmine closes by acknowledging how crisis news can fill attention with dark thoughts. Her response is to look deliberately for hope and, when hope is not readily visible, create it through positivity, practical help, and sharing available resources.

  • Repeated exposure to news and social media can darken perception
  • Attention can be redirected toward signs of hope
  • People can create hope through their behavior
  • Helping and sharing are concrete expressions of optimism

“And if you can't find the light, I believe that we can be the light.”

Jasmine Star · 59:58

“We can find ways to take the little we have and share it with others.”

Jasmine Star · 1:00:08
#hope#resilience#service#mindset