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02 July 2024

Quarter 2 Review: The Actions I Took to Build My Future

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Hot Take· 1

Hot Take26:19

Sometimes the Right Mode Is Time Maximization, Not Balance

Star distinguishes ordinary time management from a temporary build-and-go phase in which she maximizes the business value of travel. She filled a free Miami morning with three podcast interviews, while acknowledging that this intensity is not universally appropriate and balancing it with an unplugged family weekend afterward.

  • She used a short Miami window to record three interviews.
  • The decision reflected a temporary build-and-go phase.
  • She explicitly says the same choice is not right for everyone.
  • Periods of maximization should be distinguished from periods of presence and recovery.

“There is a time for maximization and there is a time for time management.”

Jasmine Star · 28:07

“Both of them are right for whatever you want to choose”

Jasmine Star · 27:17
#time management#podcasting#travel#work intensity

Explainer· 1

Explainer24:25

Why “Small Business” Describes Radically Different Companies

While mentoring for the Inc. Magazine and UPS Store Small Business Challenge, Star reflected on how broad the small-business category is. A company earning $12,000 annually and one earning $19 million may share the same label while facing entirely different constraints and decisions.

  • The small-business category can include companies below $20 million.
  • Businesses at opposite ends of that range face incomparable struggles.
  • Mentoring early-stage owners reminded Star of her own grind years.
  • The event also created relationships with media and sponsor organizations.

“They're both small business owners, but the struggles of each of them are so entirely different.”

Jasmine Star · 25:18

“You will never get to where you want to go if you cannot get past the the gnarliest grind moments.”

Jasmine Star · 25:18
#small business#mentoring#entrepreneurship#business stages

Story· 4

Story02:35

How Amy Porterfield Opened the Door to Gary Vaynerchuk

Star explains that Gary Vaynerchuk's team approached Amy Porterfield during his book promotion rather than approaching her directly. Porterfield brought him into their Nashville co-hosting session, and the resulting interview was later republished on Vaynerchuk's own podcast.

  • Star acknowledged she was not yet among the largest podcasters in the space.
  • Amy Porterfield shared access created by her existing relationship and reach.
  • The interview gained additional distribution through Vaynerchuk's podcast.
  • Star deliberately told Vaynerchuk how his career had influenced her.

“I wasn't asked to have Gary come on my show.”

Jasmine Star · 03:32

“But he did repurpose our podcast on his podcast”

Jasmine Star · 04:29
#podcasting#networking#gary vaynerchuk#distribution
Story11:41

She Journaled About YPO—Then Met Its Members at the Resort

While researching where her future clients might gather, Star wrote about YPO and then encountered a YPO Gold group at her retreat. Conversations with two women revealed a connection to the Southern California chapter's head of education, giving her a credible opening for a future speaking pitch.

  • Star identified YPO while describing potential future clients.
  • A YPO Gold group happened to be staying at the same resort.
  • She asked members detailed questions about their businesses and organization.
  • She planned to follow up with a speaking pitch despite having no guaranteed result.

“I start asking them questions about Ypo. I start asking them questions about their businesses.”

Jasmine Star · 13:14

“I am going to follow up, and I'm going to pitch myself to speak at the Ypo event.”

Jasmine Star · 13:14
#ypo#networking#speaking#serendipity
Story14:00

Why She Reversed Her Decision on the Commencement Speech

Star initially rejected Whittier College's invitation because she doubted she was accomplished enough. Her husband reframed the opportunity around the students who could see a Latina, woman of color, and first-generation graduate represented onstage, changing her understanding of why she had been invited.

  • Star's first response to the invitation was no.
  • She interpreted the selection through status and accomplishment.
  • JD reframed it through relevance and representation.
  • The speech became a moment connecting her family's sacrifices with her public role.

“They're inviting you back because you can speak to somebody in the audience that needs to hear from you.”

Jasmine Star · 14:53

“Their sacrifices coming into this country has empowered their daughter and daughter in law and Luna's mom to be up on that stage.”

Jasmine Star · 16:41
#representation#commencement#self-doubt#latina
Story18:36

The Wrong-Airport Mistake That Became a Night in Queens

After a leadership event, Star traveled to JFK only to discover that her Miami flight departed from LaGuardia. A chain of full hotels, unsafe surroundings, heavy rain, and a dying phone left her running through Queens before finding an unconventional last available room and sleeping roughly two and a half hours.

  • Star discovered the airport mistake only after reaching JFK.
  • Multiple airport-area hotels were full or oversold.
  • She ignored repeated feelings that her surroundings were unsafe.
  • The ordeal reinforced her warning to listen to intuition.
  • She still reached Miami in time to join the scheduled production.

“You should have listened to your intuition.”

Jasmine Star · 21:43

“I kind of sort of slept for like 2.5 hours”

Jasmine Star · 24:25
#travel#intuition#resilience#queens

Takeaway· 3

Takeaway07:13

The Hidden Due-Diligence Lesson Behind a Polished Live Event

The Visibility Intensive appeared polished to its online audience, but Star says serious problems occurred behind the scenes despite her team's preparation. Her central operational lesson was to investigate venues and third parties carefully rather than assuming their incentives align with yours.

  • Public highlights concealed significant production difficulties.
  • Some problems were outside the team's direct control.
  • Third-party incentives may differ from the event owner's priorities.
  • Future studio and venue decisions require stronger due diligence.

“Never assume a third party has your best interest in mind.”

Jasmine Star · 07:13

“The only party who has your best interest in mind is you.”

Jasmine Star · 07:13
#live events#due diligence#operations#vendors
Takeaway29:10

The CEO Signal: Her Team Ran 99% of the Launch

During the June Social Curator launch, Star's team handled nearly all operational execution while she limited herself to teaching and marketing content. New pages, funnel changes, customer-success processes, classes, networking, and challenges proceeded without her, which she viewed as evidence that she was finally working on the business rather than inside every task.

  • The team handled 99% of the launch.
  • Star retained only teaching and marketing-content responsibilities.
  • Operators deployed new sales, funnel, onboarding, and community elements.
  • Reduced founder dependence signaled a shift in Star's CEO role.

“For the first time in my career, 99% of the launch was handled by the team.”

Jasmine Star · 29:10

“That is how I know that I am changing as a CEO instead of being in the business. I'm working on the business”

Jasmine Star · 30:12
#delegation#ceo#team operations#launches
Takeaway32:03

The $5,000 “Hell Yes” Test for Scarce Founder Time

Star explains why Cody Sanchez's two-day infrastructure event passed her increasingly strict filter for travel and time away from family. The event addressed the precise next constraint in her company: moving beyond scalable systems and operators toward infrastructure that could support much greater volume.

  • Star treats ambiguous opportunities as a no.
  • Time away from family must have a clear strategic return.
  • The $5,000 event directly addressed her next operational bottleneck.
  • Her team and systems could scale, but the wider infrastructure still needed development.

“I'm at a state in my life where if things aren't a hell yes, they're a hell no.”

Jasmine Star · 32:52

“We have the team in place. We have the systems in place, and now I want an infrastructure.”

Jasmine Star · 34:25
#decision making#time#infrastructure#investment