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09 May 2023

Selling without Feeling Sales-y

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The myth-busts, hot takes, explainers, and tools worth keeping.

Myth Buster· 1

Myth Buster14:31

AI Does Not Eliminate the Need for Original Writing

Jasmine rejects the idea that AI makes human copy irrelevant. She argues that original thoughts and writing provide the differentiating layer, while AI can distill those ideas, fill gaps, and accelerate production.

  • AI without original input tends to reproduce generic material.
  • Human writing supplies distinctive ideas and perspective.
  • AI is valuable as an accelerator rather than a substitute for originating thought.
  • The combination can produce content faster without erasing individuality.

“But if you don't have any originating content, then what you're just doing is spewing out the same thing that AI is spitting out for…”

Jasmine Star · 14:53

“AI is gonna become a powerful vehicle once you add a layer of your own writing, your own thoughts.”

Jasmine Star · 15:00
#ai#writing#originality#content creation

Hot Take· 1

Hot Take12:48

Copywriting Still Sits Under Every Effective Content Format

Jasmine identifies copywriting as the most important complementary business skill, even in a market dominated by video. Written content contextualizes visual media, supports search discovery, travels across multiple channels, and creates deeper conversations that can progress into sales.

  • Jasmine built visibility through Blogger before she could afford a website.
  • Written content is often faster to consume than video.
  • Captions can contextualize visual content and improve search discovery.
  • Copy can be reused in blogs, newsletters, podcasts, and social posts.
  • Deeper written conversations can lead to direct messages and sales.

“Copywriting, hands down, all day every day.”

Jasmine Star · 12:48

“And direct messages are like a lilypad to actually closing sales regardless of the ticket size.”

Jasmine Star · 15:30
#copywriting#content marketing#seo#social media#sales

Explainer· 1

Explainer22:02

Your Brand Is What People Feel When You Are Absent

Jasmine defines a brand as the impression and feeling associated with a person or business, not its logo, typography, website, or business cards. That feeling influences why a customer selects one similar provider over many alternatives.

  • Visual identity is not the whole brand.
  • Reputation exists in conversations where the owner is absent.
  • Emotional association influences customer choice.
  • Useful content can create gratitude and affinity before a purchase.

“A brand is what somebody says about you when you're not in the room.”

Jasmine Star · 22:12

“A brand is what somebody feels about you.”

Jasmine Star · 22:17
#branding#reputation#emotion#customer choice

Story· 2

Story01:26

Leaving Law Without Even Calling It Entrepreneurship

Jasmine explains that leaving law felt easy because she was unhappy and difficult because she had never known an entrepreneur. Rather than beginning with a grand business identity, she simply asked whether she could pursue photography, do something she loved, and make money from it.

  • She had followed education without examining her purpose.
  • No one in her family had started a business.
  • She initially thought in terms of photography rather than entrepreneurship.
  • She kept a job while building the photography business.

“The decision was I wasn't even using the vernacular entrepreneur.”

Jasmine Star · 02:25

“It was can I do something I love and find a way to make money?”

Jasmine Star · 03:05
#career change#entrepreneurship#photography#purpose
Story12:48

How Jasmine Built a Photography Business Without Buying Gear Upfront

Jasmine rented camera equipment for individual shoots, returned it the next day, and accumulated cash until she could purchase her own gear. Avoiding loans reduced financial pressure and protected her from accepting unsuitable clients solely to meet debt obligations.

  • She could not initially afford a complete camera setup.
  • Revenue from shoots funded later equipment purchases.
  • She did not have a full gear set until well into her second year.
  • Avoiding debt preserved creative and client-selection freedom.

“So I would rent camera gear, go to the shoot, return the camera gear the next day, and then save up the cash from the…”

Jasmine Star · 13:07

“But I also never went in debt.”

Jasmine Star · 13:30
#bootstrapping#debt#photography#cash flow

Takeaway· 2

Takeaway03:49

Why Craft and Marketing Matter at Different Career Stages

Jasmine pushes back on the idea that her early success came from concentrating exclusively on artistic craft. She says she knew little about photography, marketing, or business and therefore studied broadly, flexing different capabilities as her career evolved.

  • Outside perceptions of her priorities changed over time.
  • She initially needed to prove she could create work worth paying for.
  • Different stages required different professional muscles.
  • Craft and marketing were complementary rather than opposing choices.

“And then at different times in my life and my career, I flexed different muscles.”

Jasmine Star · 04:22

“You know, my first objective was to figure out can I actually be the type of creative that somebody would pay?”

Jasmine Star · 04:25
#craft#marketing#career growth#creative business
Takeaway21:20

You Cannot Control the Timeline, but You Can Choose the Journey

Reflecting on her word of the year, “rebirth,” Jasmine describes moving through an entrepreneurial identity change without resisting it. She cannot dictate when clarity will arrive, but she can choose whether the journey is dominated by fear and frustration or by creation, trust, and service.

  • Rebirth distinguishes an old identity from an emerging one.
  • Identity uncertainty is recurring in entrepreneurship.
  • Resisting transition can add unnecessary distress.
  • The emotional posture taken during uncertainty remains a choice.
  • Creating and helping others provide direction while clarity develops.

“Let's enjoy the process and not the progress.”

Jasmine Star · 23:51

“How I get there and the emotions I associate with me is my decision, and that's what I wanna talk to people about because we're…”

Jasmine Star · 24:21
#rebirth#identity#mindset#uncertainty#entrepreneurship