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02 January 2020

The Complete Guide to Goal-Setting In 2020

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The myth-busts, hot takes, explainers, and tools worth keeping.

Hot Take· 1

Hot Take11:02

Hoping Is a Dream; Action Creates Success

Talking about an ambition is emotionally easy, but Jasmine distinguishes that experience from doing the work. She defines success as sustained commitment to a course of action rather than enthusiasm for a desired outcome.

  • Dreaming does not substitute for execution
  • Action is the difficult phase of ambition
  • Success requires sticking with a chosen course

“Now the easy part is talking about a dream.”

Jasmine Star · 11:02

“Success only comes when you stick with a course of action to achieve what you want.”

Jasmine Star · 11:14
#execution#success#commitment

Explainer· 1

Explainer16:43

Purpose Makes External Rewards Less Important

Drawing on a conversation with Lewis Howes, Jasmine explains that knowing why an activity matters changes the role of external returns. Purpose supplies fulfillment and helps people sustain commitment even when rewards are delayed or uncertain.

  • A clear why reduces dependence on immediate rewards
  • Purpose creates an internal source of fulfillment
  • Meaning can sustain commitment through difficult periods

“When you know why you do something, what you get in return doesn't matter as much.”

Jasmine Star · 16:59

“Because the feelings propel you to stand in your purpose.”

Jasmine Star · 17:06
#purpose#motivation#fulfillment

Story· 2

Story04:28

The Band-Aid Box That Revealed a Lifelong Pattern

As a child, Jasmine saved birthday and babysitting money for Disneyland by ironing the bills and storing them in a Band-Aid box. Her aunt eventually bought the family tickets, leaving Jasmine free to spend her savings at the park, but the episode revealed her early tendency to focus intensely on a declared objective.

  • Jasmine responded to an unaffordable trip by saving independently
  • She created a memorable physical container for the goal
  • The experience became evidence of her persistent, goal-focused personality

“I ironed, yes, like I ironed dollar bills I received from like birthdays and babysitting jobs and then I stuffed them into an empty bandaid…”

Jasmine Star · 04:48

“Make a goal, set a laser focus and work like a mad woman to go after it, like all get out.”

Jasmine Star · 05:50
#childhood#persistence#saving#disneyland
Story09:48

When Reality Outgrew the Goals in a Spiral Notebook

Jasmine recalls writing business goals in a spiral notebook when she started in 2007. Looking back before 2020, she found that her actual life had exceeded many of those early dreams, reinforcing the value of recording aspirations and later recognizing progress.

  • Jasmine began documenting business goals in 2007
  • Her eventual reality surpassed many early expectations
  • Reviewing old goals can expose progress that daily work obscures

“When I started in 2007 I wrote my goals and a spiral bound notebook.”

Jasmine Star · 09:48

“None of them compared to the reality of what my life had become.”

Jasmine Star · 10:22
#reflection#entrepreneurship#progress#written-goals

Takeaway· 2

Takeaway01:50

A Clear Vision Makes Detours Feel Like Pit Stops

Jasmine argues that a vision provides orientation even when specific decisions remain uncertain. Unexpected diversions become temporary adjustments rather than evidence that the larger journey has failed.

  • Vision defines the direction without prescribing every turn
  • Daily adjustments are compatible with long-term clarity
  • Detours feel less threatening when the destination remains visible

“But really for me it's all about having a vision.”

Jasmine Star · 01:50

“I know where I'm headed. I'm just at a pit stop.”

Jasmine Star · 02:18
#vision#direction#decision-making
Takeaway17:56

Uncelebrated Progress Turns Achievement Into Burnout

Jasmine warns that people can reach milestones built over five or ten years and immediately move on without recognizing them. Defining success in advance and pausing to celebrate protects achievement from feeling like endless, unsatisfying labor.

  • Long-term success criteria should be defined in advance
  • Milestones deserve deliberate recognition
  • Ignoring visible progress contributes to burnout and dissatisfaction
  • Celebration helps achievement feel meaningful

“If we don't take time to celebrate that we are going to be living an unfulfilled life.”

Jasmine Star · 18:55

“The question now becomes are you taking time to see the progress and to celebrate that progress?”

Jasmine Star · 19:06
#celebration#burnout#milestones#fulfillment