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25 April 2023

What Showing Up Really Feels Like

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The myth-busts, hot takes, explainers, and tools worth keeping.

Myth Buster· 1

Myth Buster14:13

The Cake Analogy That Dismantles Overnight-Success Comparisons

Jasmine argues that comparing your early-stage work with another person's current output is meaningless because you cannot see their resources, training, history, or even the authenticity of what they display. The useful comparison is with your own earlier work—or, if calibration is necessary, with the comparable early stage of someone else's journey.

  • Current success hides its origin and preparation.
  • Social media strips context from visible outcomes.
  • Early-stage founders should primarily compare themselves with themselves.
  • Repeated poor attempts are part of building capability.

“You never know the origin of the other person's cake.”

Jasmine Star · 15:30

“So my biggest advice to people who are creating or want to build the businesses, focus on your own dang cake.”

Jasmine Star · 15:57
#comparison#social media#learning#entrepreneurship

Hot Take· 1

Hot Take22:09

TikTok Popularity and YouTube Profitability Are Not the Same

Jasmine challenges the assumption that followers carry equal business value across platforms. She describes TikTok as exceptionally effective for interest-driven discovery but less suited to deep transactional relationships, while YouTube engagement may produce substantially greater long-term business value.

  • Follower totals should not be treated as interchangeable.
  • TikTok optimizes strongly for viewing behavior and discovery.
  • Fast, entertaining content may generate reach without depth.
  • YouTube subscribers can represent deeper commercial relationships.
  • Platform choice should follow the desired business result.

“And if somebody were to say all followers ranked equal, are they worth the same?”

Jasmine Star · 22:31

“If I wanted to become popular, I mean TikTok is where it's at.”

Jasmine Star · 24:15
#tiktok#youtube#social media#audience

Explainer· 1

Explainer29:55

Three Patterns Jasmine Saw Among 26 Top Entrepreneurs

Inside Brendon Burchard's mastermind, Jasmine observed three recurring traits among highly successful creators: continued dedication to their craft, unusual vulnerability about what was not working, and a shift from owning a business to leading a team. Their openness allowed peers to contribute both emotional support and practical strategy.

  • Successful creators remain directly involved in their content.
  • Vulnerability makes relevant advice possible.
  • Peers openly share both failures and tactical knowledge.
  • Scaling requires a distinct leadership skill set.
  • Team structures become central at higher revenue levels.

“And so there were 26 people in the room and like, the top top one thing that I saw as a similar pattern with everybody…”

Jasmine Star · 29:55

“You're no longer a business owner, you are a leader of a business.”

Jasmine Star · 32:17
#leadership#mastermind#vulnerability#teams

Story· 2

Story10:51

From First Camera to SaaS CEO: Jasmine Star's Pivot Timeline

Jasmine traces her evolution from an untrained photographer into a content creator, consultant, course creator, membership founder, and SaaS CEO. Each business emerged from solving the next limitation in the previous model rather than following a fixed career plan.

  • She became a photographer in 2006 without owning a camera.
  • Sharing her learning led naturally into content creation.
  • Demand produced consulting, which later became scalable education.
  • Membership needs exposed an opportunity for a software product.
  • Each pivot added capabilities and revenue streams.

“The pattern is I have an idea and I'm unqualified, unconnected, unfunded and uneducated.”

Jasmine Star · 12:57

“How am might I solved for the thing I wanna do?”

Jasmine Star · 13:05
#pivoting#entrepreneurship#saas#career
Story42:05

The Advice Jasmine Initially Thought Was Stupid

When Jasmine announced that she wanted to become a photographer despite not owning a camera, someone told her to jump and trust that the net would appear. She dismissed the advice at first but later adopted it as a durable expression of courageous action under uncertainty.

  • The advice arrived before she had the resources to begin.
  • She initially rejected it as unrealistic.
  • Later experience repeatedly reinforced its meaning.
  • Courage precedes certainty in many entrepreneurial moves.

“Jump and the net will appear.”

Jasmine Star · 42:11

“It will always appear always.”

Jasmine Star · 42:30
#courage#risk#entrepreneurship#mindset

Takeaway· 4

Takeaway09:03

Why Small Wins Should Change Your Definition of Success

Intermediate results do more than provide encouragement; they reveal what the larger goal will require. Jasmine explains that progress toward a revenue target may expose unwanted demands, such as building a team, and that changing the goal can be an act of kindness rather than failure.

  • Celebrate small markers of progress.
  • Use milestones to reassess the larger destination.
  • Account for the new skills and responsibilities growth requires.
  • Give yourself permission to redefine success.

“It is okay to change your mind.”

Jasmine Star · 09:56

“In fact, that is the kindest thing if you do yourself as a business owner.”

Jasmine Star · 10:08
#success#goals#growth#leadership
Takeaway24:27

Create Natively Where Your Ideal Audience Already Dwells

After testing an even split between TikTok and Instagram, Jasmine shifted most original production toward Instagram because that is where her ideal audience lives. She still repurposes elsewhere but reserves native creation effort for the platform she most wants to grow, while investing in YouTube for long-term depth.

  • Native platform creation often performs better than imported content.
  • Choose a primary channel based on audience fit rather than hype.
  • Repurposing can maintain a secondary presence efficiently.
  • Long-form YouTube content may compound over several years.

“And for me, my dream audience is on Instagram.”

Jasmine Star · 25:41

“I think that YouTube long-term is going to be the massive key to growth.”

Jasmine Star · 26:08
#instagram#tiktok#youtube#distribution
Takeaway34:23

A Right and Empowered Decision Can Still Feel Heavy

Jasmine describes taking back greater control of content after relying on a capable team. Although she believes the move is strategically correct, the added creative load remains difficult, showing that discomfort does not automatically mean a decision is wrong.

  • Delegating messaging can weaken the founder's control of vision.
  • A trusted team cannot fully substitute for the founder's voice.
  • Strategic correctness does not remove emotional or operational difficulty.
  • Empowered choices can still require uncomfortable adjustment.

“They're just never you.”

Jasmine Star · 34:54

“But just because you're making the right decision and an empowered decision, it doesn't mean that it's easy or, and it doesn't mean that it's…”

Jasmine Star · 35:27
#decision-making#content#founders#difficulty
Takeaway38:33

What If the Content Wasn't Supposed to Be Created Today?

Frustrated by unfinished work, Jasmine receives a reframing from her husband: perhaps the content was not meant to emerge that day. She concludes that disciplined scheduling still matters, but creative work also requires accepting when the creator is not the right vehicle at that moment.

  • Returning to creative work can require rebuilding capacity.
  • An unfinished task is not necessarily a personal failure.
  • Discipline can coexist with flexibility.
  • Rest may restore the conditions needed for stronger creative work.

“And then he had said, could you not choose to believe that that content wasn't supposed to be created today?”

Jasmine Star · 39:23

“If we are not the vessel and the vehicle and that moment, we have to trust that if we're disciplined and we're building in that…”

Jasmine Star · 39:50
#creativity#self-compassion#productivity#rest