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24 January 2023

Why You’re Not Making Progress In Your Business

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The myth-busts, hot takes, explainers, and tools worth keeping.

Myth Buster· 1

Myth Buster06:58

Imagining the Future Is Not the Same as Moving Toward It

Jasmine challenges Tammy's belief that repeatedly imagining a successful business constitutes manifestation. She says Tammy's emotional energy remains concentrated on present failure, making the imagined future disconnected from her current state and behavior.

  • Future visualization does not override present emotional fixation
  • Energy directed inward can remain trapped in shame
  • Personal change must accompany imagined external outcomes
  • Visualization alone does not create business progress

“Manifestation is not about imagining where you are in the future.”

Jasmine Star · 07:02

“You can imagine, but your energy is here.”

Jasmine Star · 07:23
#manifestation#visualization#energy#behavior

Hot Take· 1

Hot Take05:00

Business Owners Must Expect Most Things Not to Work

Jasmine argues that entrepreneurship normally involves insufficient time, money, resources, and certainty. The work is not to eliminate those conditions but to continue acting and iterating within them.

  • Resource scarcity is normal in entrepreneurship
  • Perfect answers are not a prerequisite for action
  • Iteration matters more than expecting every attempt to work
  • Entrepreneurs must consciously accept the nature of the game

“As business owners, we have to do more with less.”

Jasmine Star · 05:00

“It is just a process of continuing to do and iterate.”

Jasmine Star · 05:28
#entrepreneurship#iteration#uncertainty

Explainer· 2

Explainer03:11

Why Your Idealized Self Keeps Beating Down Your Real Self

Jasmine describes an internal conflict between Tammy's idealized identity and her present, authentic identity. Expecting the real person to thrive under constant internal punishment is compared to planting a flower in concrete and yelling at it to grow.

  • An imagined future identity can become an internal aggressor
  • Self-punishment is a hostile environment for growth
  • Present limitations should not be confused with personal worth

“So there's two Tammy's.”

Jasmine Star · 03:11

“I would never put a flower in concrete and yell at it and beat it and expect it to thrive.”

Jasmine Star · 03:39
#self-criticism#identity#personal growth
Explainer12:45

How a Gratitude Practice Could Inspire a Jewelry Collection

Jasmine shows how Tammy could connect her personal journey to her products by publicly sharing a gratitude challenge and creating commemorative jewelry. The idea demonstrates how an authentic personal practice can generate content, product meaning, and audience participation.

  • Share the journey rather than presenting only finished products
  • Invite the audience into a time-bound personal challenge
  • Create jewelry that commemorates the challenge
  • Continue the project even if initial participation is low

“And if nobody does it, you still do it anyway.”

Jasmine Star · 12:45

“And this is where you begin the journey of your thankful bracelet, your gratitude necklace, or your persistence earrings or whatever the case may be.”

Jasmine Star · 13:15
#jewelry#storytelling#product ideas#community

Story· 1

Story03:53

The Three Plants and the Claimed Power of Spoken Words

Jasmine recounts a purported experiment in which children spoke negatively to one plant, positively to another, and left a third untreated. She uses the story to illustrate her belief that language affects what people create and how they behave, although the episode does not substantiate the experiment scientifically.

  • The negatively addressed plant was described as brown and shriveled
  • The positively addressed plant was described as larger and greener
  • The story serves as a metaphor for the effects of self-talk
  • The scientific status of the claim is not established in the episode

“This is a real life scientific example of how the words that we speak to others and ourself have an impact on what we create…”

Jasmine Star · 04:48
#self-talk#plant experiment#language

Takeaway· 2

Takeaway07:51

You Do Not Need to Fix Yourself Before Building the Business

When Tammy asks whether she must become psychologically “right” before proceeding, Jasmine rejects the premise. Personal work is ongoing, so entrepreneurs must develop themselves while continuing to operate rather than waiting for a final state of emotional perfection.

  • Personal development has no final completion point
  • Therapy, meditation, and breathing can coexist with business action
  • Waiting to become fully healed can become permanent avoidance
  • Ongoing inner work is normal rather than evidence of failure

“I would never say get yourself right Cuz then I would say, well you're gonna be working in perpetuity, as would I.”

Jasmine Star · 08:12

“Do I think that you need to do personal work?”

Jasmine Star · 08:20
#personal development#therapy#business mindset
Takeaway16:03

Customers Feel What Drives the Work

Jasmine closes the coaching exchange by arguing that products carry the emotional orientation from which they were created. Work grounded in perseverance, service, and a personally meaningful vision of success is more compelling than work driven by self-punishment.

  • Creative motivation affects how work is presented
  • Service and perseverance can strengthen customer connection
  • A personally defined version of success supports sustained creation

“And when you create from want and blessing and perseverance and your own version of defined success, you win.”

Jasmine Star · 16:03

“And your customers feel that too.”

Jasmine Star · 16:03
#customers#creative energy#perseverance